SCA-reasons-msg – 8/11/05
The reasons various people joined the SCA.
NOTE: See also the files: magic-moments-msg, SCA-as-family-msg, SCA-The-Dream-msg, SCA-gays-msg, non-SCA-part-msg, A-Study-o-SCA-art, The-Blow-art, Y-Join-th-SCA-art.
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From: hrjones at uclink.berkeley.edu (Heather Rose Jones)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: SCA vs Fishing?
Date: 26 Feb 1995 20:04:45 GMT
Organization: University of California, Berkeley
Beverly Roden (ac508 at dayton.wright.EDU) wrote:
: Why are you in the SCA? Why do you stay active? What keeps you coming
: back, even when some things frustrate or anger you?
Why do I stay in the SCA? Where else could I find one single organization
in which I could indulge my interest in: camping, sewing, reading,
painting, cooking, making music, history, poetry, languages, research,
embroidery, travel, teaching, etc. etc.
For me, being in the SCA is just a matter of efficiency!
Seriously, I did all the above-listed activities _before_ I joined the
SCA. I was the sort of kid who embroidered my school clothes, ground
pigments out of rocks I found lying around, couldn't have fibers in my
hands without absentmindedly spinning them into thread, made bows and
arrows out of old curtain rods and bamboo plant stakes. The SCA gave me
an explainable excuse to keep doing that stuff as an adult. All the
threads just come together in the right way.
Tangwystyl verch Morgant Glasvryn
From: hrjones at uclink.berkeley.edu (Heather Rose Jones)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place in t
Date: 18 Dec 1995 16:56:26 GMT
Organization: University of California, Berkeley
Mike Huber (mike.huber at software.rockwell.com) wrote:
: I challenge all:
: Does anyone claim that there was no element of
: fantasy that first brought you into either The
: Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
I accept the challenge.
What first brought me to the study of the Middle Ages was the experience
of spending my eleventh year living in eastern Europe, surrounded by more
history than a Californian had ever previously even dreamed about. I
fell, and I fell hard, and there has been no looking back (or rather,
there has been no _lack_ of "looking back" :> ).
What brought me to the SCA was the chance to study and experience history
from a wildly different perspective than books could give me. I'd always
been very much into "making and doing", low-tech crafts were almost an
obsession for me (my college dorm voted me Most Likely to Survive on a
Desert Island), and I had always tended to bring an experiential approach
to anything I was fascinated by.
When I joined the SCA, I had plenty of outlets for fantasy already. That
wasn't what I was looking for.
Tangwystyl verch Morgant Glasvryn
From: sclark at blues.epas.utoronto.ca (Susan Carroll-Clark)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place in t
Date: 18 Dec 1995 23:25:31 -0500
Organization: University of Toronto -- EPAS
Greetings!
Anaximander said,
>Does anyone claim that there was no element of
>fantasy that first brought you into either The
>Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
Well, me for one. I came to the Middle Ages through the back door--I was
a classicist as an undergrad and kept getting interested in later and later
periods, until I had been firmly ejected from Late Antiquity into the Middle
Ages. I came to the SCA enamored of Ostrogothic history and wishing to
try to make the clothes and jewellery I had seen in burials and museums
in order to better understand how these people lived. Although I have moved
to the thirteenth century, my driving force is to attempt to
understand the way the people of the past thought and viewed their world,
and to understand daily life via wearing the clothes, trying the food,
understanding the religion, hearing the music, and so forth.
I often shock my friends with how little I know of literary fantasy beyond
Tolkein, some Arthurian stuff, Katherine Kurtz, and a smattering of other
authors.
Although I have come to enjoy the fantasy of creating a persona, I still
think the Middle Ages would be a nice place to visit...but I wouldn't want
to live there.
Cheers!
Nicolaa de Bracton
sclark at epas.utoronto.ca
From: Garick Chamberlin <Garick at vonkopke.demon.co.uk>
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place in t
Date: Tue, 19 Dec 95 20:52:29 GMT
Organization: Drachenwald
In article <4asbhf$193 at moci.mke.software.rockwell.com>
mike.huber at software.rockwell.com "Mike Huber" writes:
> I challenge all:
>
> Does anyone claim that there was no element of
> fantasy that first brought you into either The
> Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
Not taking up the challenge because I wouldn't stand a chance. I just thought
there should be a voice in this thread that is other than what I think of as an
exception.
My hook was, without a doubt, fantasy, though not elves and orcs type fantasy.
I came into the SCA to be Ivanhoe. My guiding force growing up was one hundred
percent Sir Walter Scott. I thought it was history, until I learned more. Even
as I have been hooked by Real History (TM) I lean heavily towards the
"fantastic" idealism of the Romances. I guess that, like Rat (Sir Richard of
Aldertree), I think that a perfect world for me would not be modern, or
medieval as it was, but medieval as *they* (the writers and followers of the
romances and philosophical treatises) would have it be.
--
Garick, Proud and happy to be a "knight in Shining Armor" and still striving to
be worthy.
Honor Virtus Est
From: rudi3964 at utdallas.edu
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place in t
Date: 19 Dec 1995 11:47:57 -0600
Organization: The University of Texas at Dallas
Anaximander of Xidon (Mike Huber <mike.huber at software.rockwell.com>) proclaims:
>I challenge all:
>Does anyone claim that there was no element of
>fantasy that first brought you into either The
>Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
The exceptions exist, but his point is generally true. My primary
motivation is Tolkien, and when I joined in the late 70s, virtually
everybody who joined was mostly brought to it either through Tolkien or
through SF conventions. By the late 80s, we were getting a large number
of people who were disenchanted with D&D, and wanted something more real.
My lady wife, Mistress Adelica Gilwell, joined through an interest in
history, and is often kind of bemused by the rarity of that motivation.
Actually, one of the greatest educational contributions of the SCA is that
people who joined just for the funny clothes, or fantasy, or to hit people
with sticks, are eventually led to an interest in real history. We do a
grave disservice to these people when we belittle the first beginnings of
serious study by comparing it to the work of long-term artists.
Robin of Gilwell / Jay Rudin
From: david.razler at compudata.com (DAVID RAZLER)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place
Date: Wed, 20 Dec 95 06:51:00 -0400
Organization: Compu-Data BBS -=- Turnersville, NJ -=- 609-232-1245
R>Anaximander of Xidon (Mike Huber <mike.huber at software.rockwell.com>)
R>proclaims: >I challenge all:
R>
R>>Does anyone claim that there was no element of
R>>fantasy that first brought you into either The
R>>Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
It was more Tuchman than Tolkien in my case. Really.
Mom got her MA by driving the final nail into the coffin of the theory
that Chaucer wrote The Romance of the Rose, and that it was translated
to French by two French poets (really, they believed that not too long
ago)
Dad got his MA for miscellaneous research, etc. into Western European
history.
But what got *me* into the SCA, in addition to growing up with the
family library, was hearing William the Subtle's twins run up to him
crying "do we really have to go to Page School at Pennsic (IXX) during a
demo I was covering for my paper.
I went to the War to cover the event through local participants - and
went native 24 hours after arrival.
I first read Tolkien in 4th Grade, and have just about a complete
collection of his published works, along with CJRT's publications of his
father's papers. I can point out the differences between the 1st Ed. Ace
edition, Ballentine edition, 2nd Brit. text, HMCO 1st text and the
recent final redacted most-authentic-text, the only one now in
publication in English.
I game-mastered using Chivalry and Sorcery, the game system "dedicated
to the SCA" and am one of the people responsible for crying 'foul' to
the publisher for plagerizing large sections from William Stearns
Davis's "Life in a Medieval Barony" without credit given that delightful
introductory volume to 12th C. culture, an error corrected in the Second
Ed. [as soon as I get confirmation that the copyright has lapsed on the
book, I'll be Gutenberging it and getting it into Society hands] I was
also able to identify the Renaisance and post-Ren sources of C&S
"magic," (mainly period/post-period texts based on Greek Gnostics or
completely synthetic period mss. later translated by the 19th/20th C.
theosophists, Waite, Crowley and the whole "magickle" crew etc.)
I joined the SCA because of, as Peter Beagle said, "the sounds." The
sounds and the smells and the flavors and the sights and the experiences
of period living got me. It was Cariodoc and others who *did* the
medieval thing better than I probably ever will; the sounds of 3,000
foot soldiers in leather and steel taking the field; watching the sun
come up behind a Pennsic campfire, burning off the night smells of wood
smoke, spilled food and drink, sweat and shit; the fact that we did not
give a damn when electric power for the entire region suddenly failed;
the study of the old arts - every feudal trade represented.
And learning things most historians will never know: like *how* to fight
on foot in armour, and why all of those second-hand explanations of how
it was done are wrong. The laws of physics apply - but the only way to
learn is to at least do it for an hour then watch others.
Master Iolo did not just sell me a crossbow - he explained to me exactly
how period bows were made (and the handful of differences between his
and the real thing). Others taught me how to turn wood on a bow lathe,
by building one, how fencers fenced without little wiry blades with
electronic tips, how to (well the list goes on and on)
I didn't come here for fantasy - I came here for the next best thing to
time travel and the most effective and enjoyable form of education on
the planet.
Hands On!
Aleksandr the Traveller here/david m. razler everywhere else
[david.razler at compudata.com]
From: HAROLD.FELD at hq.doe.GOV
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Fantasy has no place in it
Date: 18 Dec 1995 15:27:11 -0500
Organization: The Internet
Greetings from Yaakov.
Anaximader writes:
>Does anyone claim that there was no element of
>fantasy that first brought you into either The
>Society or the study of the Middle Ages?
That depends on how you define fantasy. The SCA appealed to my
romantic (in the non-libidinous sense) ideals. It offered a chance to
play act and role-play within a setting I thought I would enjoy. It
also gave me a common activity with people who seemed neat and who
apparently shared similar ideas.
However, I never had a desire to be Robin Hood, or Erol Flyn for that
matter. I never felt the need to spice up my recreation with
vampires, elves, dybuks or golems. I was an active role-player at the
time I joined the SCA, and that satisfied my desire to pretend to cast
spells or find lost treasures.
The SCA still appeals to my romantic instincts. Here I can write
poetry, tell stories, discourse passionatly, and a host of other
things that the rest of the world consider in bad taste. This does
not mean I enjoy the introduction of non-historic elements.
Yaakov
(Is Colonial Williamsburg a fantasy?)
From: "Joel \"Spydre\" Connors" <Joel_Connors at attpls.net>
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: Tue, 19 Dec 1995 08:55:53 -0800
Organization: Northwind Special Services
ALBAN at delphi.COM wrote:
>
> Mike Huber/Anaximander of Xidon said:
> >I challenge all:
> >Does anyone claim that there was no element of fantasy
> >that first brought you into either The Society or the study
> >of the Middle Ages? Certainly, authentic history has (in
> >my case, anyway) proved to be more rewarding in the
> >long run, but I won't deny what brought me in.
> i can so claim. i joined in 1975 because it had been
> described as a. . . a . . . you know, i haven't the foggiest idea
Snip
>my nephew then asked "is that what college
> is for, to learn all that useless stuff?" we all laughed, said
> yes, and went on with the conversation.)
> did i join because i liked fantasy? no way.
>
> alban, old fogey slowly going senile
I myself can make the same claim. While I like fantasy very much it had
nothing to do with my joining the SCA. In fact the opposite could
possibly be said.
I have worked the CA Ren Faire circuit for ten years. I have studied
English 16th century history till I was blue in the face. It seems that
I am a motivational studier of history, no motivation, no study. That
combined with a desire to find a physical activity that I could enjoy
got me to give the SCA a chance that I might not have.
Of course it helped that friends of mine assured me that there were
people n the SCA who did care about history and doing it right. I may
not be a costume nazi, history maven etc, but I probably come pretty
damn close. I would have to say the only reason I am not is I don't
force my history down anothers throat.
If some guy wants to be a vampire, there is not a lot that I can do to
stop him. Not a lot except ignore him and walk away. If I want fantasy,
I'll read a book, join a D&D re-enactor group etc. If I want to live the
"fasinating" parts of history, I'll go play with the peop[le I have met
in the SCA. Heck with all the odd and unexplained parts of history to be
lived, who needs to bring fantasy into it?
Thanks to people like Flieg, Fabian, Tangwystal, Wander, Magnus and many
others I have found not only history, but honor, love, and caring.
With joy, honor happy wishes and fire retardent,
Teirnion Shadauw, The Mists
From: UDSD007 at DSIBM.OKLADOT.STATE.OK.US (Mike.Andrews)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: Thu, 21 Dec 1995 16:48
Organization: The University of Oklahoma (USA)
I'll admit it right here: I joined for the music.
I joined because the SCA was a place where people were interested
in Renaissance and Medieval music, as I was and still am. Notthing
at all about fantasy entered my mind: fantasy doesn't particularly
interest me (aside from the literary genre), and never has. Real
life is plenty enough to cope with, ThankYouVeryMuch, but the
music is a relief and surcease.
I do other things, too: archery, illumination, some leatherwork,
etc., etc., But the music comes first.
--
udsd007 at dsibm.okladot.state.ok.us
Michael Fenwick of Fotheringhay, O.L. (Mike Andrews) Namron, Ansteorra
From: email at domain.com (Your Name)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: Tue, 19 Dec 1995 19:35:02 -0500
Organization: World Lynx
Noble Cousins!
Although I joined a couple of years after Alban, I joined at about the same
time. Further, I had actually heard of the SCA many years earlier. Now
then, what were my impressions? First of all, the SCA was definitely not
a fantasy society. The society was about playing medieval and more
specifically about playing noble. One of my early questions about the
society when actually invited to an event was concern lest it be too expensive.
I was told that while a lot of people in the society like to affect being
wealthy and powerful, most enjoy rather humble stations in life and not to
worry. This corresponds rather well with my first impressions of the
society garnered from an episode of To Tell the Truth and my second impressions
garnered from conversations with someone in Science Fiction Fandom. (This
second person while showing me pictures of Baron Patri and Lord Ivan was
rather derissive of the people in the society in general. That put me off
from actually joining the society for a couple of years, even though I was
eager to join when she showed me the pictures. She was my boss at the time.)
Basically, while some people in the society were interested in fantasy, that
was not what the Society was about, at least in the Easter Rite. Even the
king and queen on the television program many years earlier had a very strong
grittyness too them which was very much non-fantasy.
Your Humble Servant
Solveig Throndardottir
Amateur Scholar
From: howland at noc.arc.nasa.gov (Chris de H.)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: 22 Dec 1995 07:54:10 GMT
Organization: NASA Science Internet Project Office
|> Mike Huber/Anaximander of Xidon said:
|> >I challenge all:
|> >Does anyone claim that there was no element of fantasy
|> >that first brought you into either The Society or the study
|> >of the Middle Ages? Certainly, authentic history has (in
|> >my case, anyway) proved to be more rewarding in the
|> >long run, but I won't deny what brought me in.
I joined for the Ladies. Honestly, I've found
few activities that I can partisipate in where
the Ladies are an active, equal part.
I dance, I fence, I arch(?), done needlle-
point and poetry. I was interested first by the
historic recreation and investigation, having
always been interested in history. Yes, I also
enjoy fantasy and science fiction. But what
got me hooked was the acceptance given to me
because I wanted to try.
I didn't have to be the best at any thing, just
interested and ready to learn.
All that and beautifull Ladies, too? Can't beat
it!
(and before any flames, I am not speaking only
of external, transient appearience.)
Christofer de Hoyland, the Embarrassable
Southern Shores, Mists, West.
From: Bob Lyle <madrabit at metronet.com>
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: 22 Dec 1995 14:00:44 GMT
Organization: Texas Metronet, Inc (login info (214/705-2901 - 817/571-0400))
Uh, I hate to say this . . .but I was a fencer when I joined and wanted
to learn broadsword techniques. Of course, I haven't fought heavy in
twelve years, so I obviously found something else.
Lyelf the Lame
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
From: MDyane at sisna.com (Dyane McSpadden)
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: Sat, 23 Dec 95 16:36:22 GMT
Organization: Source Internet Services
I joined for Three reasons,
I like to make Arrows,
I like to Shoot Traditional Archery,
I like to look at ladies in low cut Dresses,
The rest of the society is a bonus. The dancing, the
comraderie, the FUN. But I always harken back to the
"Thrilling days of yesteryear" when I talk about why I joined!
Chrystopher the Fletcher
Bard-Defender of Carraig Ruadh
From: jfoxdavis at aol.com (J FoxDavis)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: why i joined?
Date: 27 Dec 1995 16:34:32 -0500
Organization: America Online, Inc. (1-800-827-6364)
Cousins on the Bridge,
I guess I qualify as an official "old phart", having joined when TI was
still being mimeographed and there were only 4 kingdoms. I was enamored
then, and now, with the ideal of the knight. I suppose, having been
guilty of the crime of being only 18 at the time, I made a few errors
along the way, but the ideal still holds, if the vessel is somewhat weak
at 41.
Truthfully, there was little enough fantasy involved in the folk I hung
around with, although one was a fantasy _author_, and she's the one who
dragged me to my first bardic revel. The following interchange was between
the Seneschal of the Barony of Angels, one Lady Bevin Fraser of Stirling,
and one college student, Jim Davis, called "Clueless".
("You're going to a bardic revel. Here, (handing me a purple satin tunic)
put this on."
"Great!" I replied, "What's a Bardic Revel?" (at this point I would have
cheerfully jumped off a bridge to follow the combination of blond hair,
green eyes and big smile I was seeing)
"It's where a bunch of people sit around, sing songs and tell stories."
"Sounds like fun" I replied.)
I think it to my great credit that, upon being presented with the visage
of Edwin Bersark in naught but bathrobe and his own hirsute pelt, holding
forth with some Norse saga I could not understand, I stood my ground.
....I suppose the only fantasy involved herein was that I was hoping for
my chance for more than friendship with the lady in question at the time.
<grin>..(ah, well. The fantasies of youth. At least we're still friends,
and happily married (each to someone else))
The SCA has been responsible, over the last 23 years, for a house crammed
with books, weapons, fabric, instruments, feast making and dining gear,
scrolls, banners, and ghu only knows what else. It has also given me some
of the finest friends, best times, and, to be sure, greatest anguishes of
my life. All in all, though, looking around my home, and rifling through
my memories, I think it's been good to me.
Jared Alexandre Blaydeaux
Angels, Caid
From: dduncan348 at aol.com (DDuncan348)
Newsgroups: rec.org.sca
Subject: Re: Fantasy has No Place in t
Date: 10 Jan 1996 06:23:33 -0500
Organization: America Online, Inc. (1-800-827-6364)
I find that there are a vast many reasons why people join the SCA. I am
one of the ones who joined during the '80s as a result of the D&D crowd,
but as I have grown older I find that my area of interests has centered
around the historical aspec of the Society.
Perspective changes during life. I would say now if people join wanting
jsut the fantasy aspect, there are many of the live role-playing groups
out there that I would think would appeal to them more.
Now, if one wants a more rewarding experience and learn and have fun, the
SCA is the choice I would make.
I am not knocking down the other organizations.
From: "j'lynn yeates" <jyeates at realtime.net>
To: <ansteorra at ansteorra.org>
Subject: ANST - thoughts on what is the sca all about ...
Date: Thu, 8 Jun 2000 13:36:29 -0500
> From: iainmacc at juno.com
> That's the true measure of honor: If you're honorable
> even when no one else would know or care.
something along the lines "... to thine own self be true", eh?
(g)
one dynamic that has always seemed obvious to me, is that the scadian
world is primarily made up of intelligent seekers.
most have been alienated from society at large (no surprises there,
can't see how *any* intelligent person would not be alienated by the
popular culture of the last few decades). this alienation & seeking
manifests in *many* areas - the beat movement (literary / cultural),
early rock-n-roll rebellion (artistic / cultural), 60's counter
culture, new age movement (religious / philosophical)., biker,
goth/punk, .... and in this group is scadia.
further, i can see two distict types within ... those seeking
"asylum" from the world and those that seek to enhance aspects of
self while keeping other areas outside the sca active. the former
often manifests in the total-immersion "live the dream" mindset
verses the later "hobbyist". from as long as i've been inside, there
has been at best a uneasy truce between the two camps. but seems
over last years, the sca seems attracting more and more seeking total
refuge. along with this seems to be a rising intolerance of those who
are not 100% 24/7 committed to the sca. this is a concern of many of
those i correspond with especially as the "cult level" of behavior
seems on the rise (won't go into the various cult evaluation
frameworks, they're out on the internet for those interested)
problem is that scadian is many things to many people. it is such a
wide ranging environment (as it was designed and evolved) that one
can find unique things that are relevent. problem is what is primary
for me is not primary for you ... my definitions of concept "x" is
different from your's. is this a bad thing? not at all.... that'
one reason i stay is that i *love* the many interpretations and the
sometimes reasoned and often impassioned debate on these differences
of opinions (keltoi blood i think) ... it reminds me of the old
university years when i could develop and test my understandings
against my peers (the "crucible" i mentioned elesewhere)
it also is a space that makes room for many of the deep meta-programs
("personal honor" in relationship to this thread)that are
increasingly squeezed out in the modern world. also and very
importantly, it's a venue that has historically allowed room for the
radical and sometimes outre' individual to carve a niche for
themselves, especially those of us of the wolfling persuasion (g).
it has tolerated those of us with strong opinion and a willingness to
state our minds freely irregardless of the current politics or rising
star-courts of public opinion.
to those who share these borderlands, ride free along the edges and
be well my brothers and sisters! stay well clear of "civilization",
it is a deadly trap will weaken and ultimately destry you if you stay
inside those walls for too long a time.
'wolf
... has always prided self in being "barbarian" (check your OED's for
deeper meanings of the term)
From: Theron Bretz [tbretz at io.com]
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2002 8:20 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Ansteorra] Query...
> So...why did you join and why do you stay in the SCA?
I first heard of the SCA when I was 14 or 15, reading L. Sprague de Camp's
"The Blade of Conan", a collection of stories and articles from "Amra" (a
Conan fanzine from the 60s). One of the articles was by Poul Anderson and
entitled "Richard the Lionhearted is Alive, Well, and Living in the
Twentieth Century", which gave a snapshot of the SCA circa AS 5 or 6. The
notion of people putting on armour and playing knight was too cool to put
away and colored much of my free time for the next few years as I improvised
highly dangerous weapons and somehow avoided killing my brothers with them.
I finally found the Society just before TYC, and my first event was the
Crown Tourney in Emerald Keep that Inman won for Drusilla. I got horribly
ill from heat-prostration (the hole-in-the-ground toilets didn't help
either - another thing I don't miss about the old days), got better, watched
the tournament (which was held on a Sunday) and resolved to keep doing it.
Why do I stay is sometimes a tougher question. With job, family, mortgage,
a nascent writing career (very nascent, barely there at all, really), and
other interests, making time for the Society is something I have to do
consciously. My reasons for sticking around change depending on a number of
factors: a sense of obligation and "giving back", a desire to teach, the
joy of fighting in a tournament, sheer inertia. Often times, Bia and I
find that one or the other is more fired up about the Society than the other
and that helps to keep things going.
But I'd be lying if I said I didn't think once in a while about how much
easier things would be if I gave it up until the kid gets older. But I know
that if I did, I probably would keep finding reasons not to play, so I stick
around.
Luciano
From: Rob rose [onetruewolf at hotmail.com]
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2002 9:51 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Ansteorra] Query...
Why did i join? It was new and different. At least to me. Plus it looked way
too fun.
Why do i stay? That's the easy one. extraordinary people. I think that
ordinary people stay home and play payrolls and paychecks. Extraordinary
people do extraordinary things. Somewhere, i found a home amongst some very
extraordinary people. I found family in them.
Ian macleod
From: Paul DeLisle [ferret at hot.rr.com]
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2002 10:29 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: RE: [Ansteorra] Query...
> So...why did you join and why do you stay in the SCA?
Why I joined is not important...a chance occurrence with a fringe Sca'ers in
my early military days...
But why I stayed......
I stayed because I found in the SCA a group of people who valued what I was
taught to value. That Honor, and Honesty, and Courage (yes, with capital
letters) were "important" in this Society. That the values I had been
taught (by my parents) had finally found a place where they were valued.
I found a need to ...explain this...to others...
And so one day, I wrote this little piece...:
WHY I JOINED THE SCA (IN 125 WORDS OR LESS)
Alden Pharamond
(Inspired by the survey at Pennsic;
mentioned in Mary Monica Pulver¹s book ³Murder at the War²)
Pageantry, colors, and Kings held in awe
Medieval feasts (although sometimes served raw)
...And the bards who put glorious tales in our heads!
(And the heralds who pry us from comfortable beds
And bloodlust in battle! ...and beer later on!
...And the sight of a misty encampment at dawn...
Ladies in Tudor, and fighters in steel
Who believe that, deep down, its no game, that its real.
Where your word is your bond, and that this thought holds true
For the Saxon, and Viking... and Cavalier, too
So... "Why do I stay with this game?" I reflect
Well, for Chivalry, Courtesy, Friendship, Respect
And a thousand small words, but mostly, you see
...For I've lived in the Dream... and now it, lives in me.
In Service, I remain
Alden Pharamond
Tempio, Ansteorra
From: Dom [thunder-domi at coxinet.net]
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2002 10:48 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: RE: [Ansteorra] Query...
I joined because of my parents. They were driving by a park in Dallas off
of Abrams Rd. and saw some people in "funny looking" clothes and decided to
go and check them out. I was about 3 1/2 to 4 yrs old. I have been in about
29 yrs now and I stay because I have learned so many cool things. Dancing,
Drumming, Sewing, Beadwork, Embroidery, and best of all I met my wonderful
husband. This just to name a few. But I think that the main reason for
staying is out of love for my friends that I have made. They are after all
an extension of my family. There are some aspects of the game that I do not
like but that happens with anything in the mundane world too. I also
believe in my heart that the majority of the children that are raised in
the SCA have more respect for other people and their belongings and most of
all in themselves. Their self-esteem is also higher and in most cases they
are a little too smart for their own britches (I know that I was...sheepish
grin). Sometimes I think about the things that my family and I could have
done instead of always going to an event and I do bitch a little about it
too but I do not regret it for one moment and I plan on bringing my child
up in it also with a healthy dose of other trips too. I am a lifer.
Something really bad has to happen to ever change that.
In Service to the Dream
Hldy Dominique Michelle LeVesseur
Hospitaler of Wiesenfeuer
Matriarch of Rogue Thunder
From: Lady Simone ui' Dunlaingh [simone at elfsea.net]
Sent: Saturday, May 11, 2002 8:50 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Ansteorra] Query...
> So...why did you join and why do you stay in the SCA?
Why did I Join
Because mom said I needed to find a hobby and it looked cool and after
getting to play I found out it was cool.
Why do I stay
Because it has become a part of my life not just a hobby. The friends I have
found here have stood by me in the good times and the bad. Here I learned
how to be a human being. here they showed tolerance as I learned and
continue to live the ideals we dearly treasure. I get to shed off the 20th
century on a regular basis and slip back into a more simpler time. I love it
all the good, the bad the just ok. the SCA is a wondrous thing. and the more
I play the more I love it. I could go on forever on why I keep playing.
Lady Simone Maurian ui' Dunlaingh
From: Chris Zakes [moondrgn at austin.rr.com]
Sent: Saturday, May 11, 2002 7:31 PM
To: ansteorra at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Ansteorra] Query...
>So...why did you join and why do you stay in the SCA?
>
>Lorraine DeerSlayer
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