peerage-cerem-msg – 2/10/14 Thoughts on SCA Peerage ceremonies. NOTE: See also the files: coronations-msg, chivalry-msg, oaths-lnks, Fealty-n-t-SCA-art, mottoes1-msg, Feudalism-art, Award-Rec-Let-art, peerage-vigls-msg, The-Peerage-msg. ************************************************************************ NOTICE - This file is a collection of various messages having a common theme that I have collected from my reading of the various computer networks. Some messages date back to 1989, some may be as recent as yesterday. This file is part of a collection of files called Stefan's Florilegium. These files are available on the Internet at: http://www.florilegium.org I have done a limited amount of editing. Messages having to do with separate topics were sometimes split into different files and sometimes extraneous information was removed. For instance, the message IDs were removed to save space and remove clutter. The comments made in these messages are not necessarily my viewpoints. I make no claims as to the accuracy of the information given by the individual authors. Please respect the time and efforts of those who have written these messages. The copyright status of these messages is unclear at this time. If information is published from these messages, please give credit to the originator(s). Thank you, Mark S. Harris AKA: THLord Stefan li Rous Stefan at florilegium.org ************************************************************************ Date: Wed, 05 Apr 2006 07:42:09 -0700 From: Susan Fox Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-)! To: Cooks within the SCA > Now here's the rub. TRMs commanded me to sit my vigil and present > myself before Their Court on the morning of Coronation on the 22nd of > this month. On that same morning I am SECOND in command, executive > sous chef if you will, of the feast for that evening. I'm thinking of > delegating the vigil to a few other people to sit in shifts or > putting a really big paper cutout of me on the kitchen door that > people can sign with their well wishes. I have food to cook! > > Iasmin, Baby Bird Vigilante Yup, SCA tradition lives. Here's your Pelican, now everybody BACK TO WORK! There is much to be said for a "walking vigil" where well-wishes are made during the day's activities as people catch up with you. I was too busy on the day of my "vigil" to sit around in one place, that's for sure. In any case, the kitchen can probably spare you for the Court appearance. Seriously. Selene Date: Wed, 05 Apr 2006 11:06:17 -0700 From: "Laura C. Minnick" Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA At 07:21 AM 4/5/2006, you wrote: > I got my Maple Leaf (Principality Arts Award when Artemisia was still a > principality) many years ago when I was in the middle of finishing the feast > prep for a multi-course Middle Eastern dinner. I do believe I came out into > court, apron on and ladle in hand, and said something along the lines of, > "What? I need to be cooking?" ;o) > > --Maire Heh. When I got my Goutte de Sang (grant-level service award), I was in my camp kitchen ( which was up against that back of court, and I could see/hear most everything), cooking dinner for the Crown Princess. I was cutting up pork cutlets to braise when I heard my name. Apparently I uttered a "Sh!t!" that was audible in the back rows. I had the presence of mind to put down my knife, but I was still wearing my apron (that said 'Chez Elaine' in gold glitter script on the front) and was covered in pork grease as I went up the aisle, much to the amusement of Her RH and the crowd. His Maj looked at me funny, but gave me the dangly anyway. Seems to me that being called for a service award is likely to happen While one is, well, serving! 'Lainie Date: Wed, 05 Apr 2006 13:09:55 -0700 From: Susan Fox Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA Adele de Maisieres wrote: >> I was pulled out of the kitchen just prior to service for my Pel, it's >> just a damned good thing I was as organized as I was. I was a basket >> case afterwards, and only my extensive timetables and service lists >> posted on the wall saved the feast! >> Christianna > > I have to say that I'd be pretty unhappy about that. I'd be annoyed > by being pulled out of a kitchen (where, for all anyone knows I'm in > the middle of doing my best work ever). And I'd be _extremely_ upset > by being surprised with a peerage. I'm surprised that Huette has not yet chimed in. It was 25 years ago that she was pulled of the kitchen for her Laurel, back when candidates were not warned. She almost didn't come out, it took two tries to extract her as I recall. Selene Date: Wed, 5 Apr 2006 16:10:11 -0400 From: "King's Taste Productions" Subject: RE: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: "'Cooks within the SCA'" Heh, you can ask those who know me how I felt about it (and still do). Let's just say I won't let it happen to anyone else if I'm around to say anything about it! Christianna ----- I have to say that I'd be pretty unhappy about that. I'd be annoyed by being pulled out of a kitchen (where, for all anyone knows I'm in the middle of doing my best work ever). And I'd be _extremely_ upset by being surprised with a peerage. -- Adele de Maisieres ----- Date: Thu, 06 Apr 2006 08:15:21 +1200 From: Adele de Maisieres Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA Susan Fox wrote: >> I have to say that I'd be pretty unhappy about that. I'd be annoyed >> by being pulled out of a kitchen (where, for all anyone knows I'm in >> the middle of doing my best work ever). And I'd be _extremely_ upset >> by being surprised with a peerage. > > I'm surprised that Huette has not yet chimed in. It was 25 years ago > that she was pulled of the kitchen for her Laurel, back when > candidates were not warned. She almost didn't come out, it too two > tries to extract her as I recall. I don't know what the norm is elsewhere, but Lochac doesn't do ambush peerages. I'd be absolutely beside myself if it happened. I'm not even certain whether I'd want to *accept* a peerage, and I'd have to make the decision on the spot. And add to that being straight from the kitchen. No, thank you-- in filthy clothes and tears is _not_ my idea of a good experience. -- Adele de Maisieres Date: Wed, 5 Apr 2006 15:06:43 -0700 (PDT) From: Huette von Ahrens Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA Well, almost 25 years ago, back in the days when they did drive-by Laurellings. I was Head Cook/Feeast-o-crat/whatever, for the June Coronation feast. There I was, minding my own recipes, attempting and succeeding to get my feast for 300 done by the time I said I would get it done. When in comes two of the king's guards, stating, "You wanted in court." I looked up in surprise. "Sorry! But I have a feast to put on. I have no time right now." They went away and came back with two more guardsmen. I told them the same thing. A bit later they returned with a friend of mine, who said, "Please go! I am positive you will like it!" "But I am in the middle of this dish, which will be ruined if I don't keep beating it!" "Let me take over for you? You know I won't let it become ruined." Reluctantly, I allowed the guards to lead me into court, where I walked right into the middle of a Laureling ceremony. Unfortunately, I didn't get a vigil or any chance to clean myself up or make sure that my family was there to see my elevation. And afterwards, I didn't get many congratulations and good wishes from others because I had to go back into the kitchen and finish the feast. I also had to do clean up, because my clean up crew didn't show. Please, let someone else take over for that feast. You can do the prep work, but, trust me, you don't want to miss out on all the hullaballoo and partying that goes with an elevation. I never got such. I wish that I could have enjoyed my day. But I was just too responsible to my commitments. I feel like I was denied all that everyone else gets as part of this passage. You have earned this. Allow yourself the fun and celebration! You won't regret it! Huette Caid > Thank you kindly folks. Was quite a surprise. I'm told "deer in > headlights" doesn't quite describe my look well enough. Of course I > couldn't see much buried in my husband's kosode crying my fool head > off.... :) > > Now here's the rub. TRMs commanded me to sit my vigil and present > myself before Their Court on the morning of Coronation on the 22nd of > this month. On that same morning I am SECOND in command, executive > sous chef if you will, of the feast for that evening. I'm thinking of > delegating the vigil to a few other people to sit in shifts or > putting a really big paper cutout of me on the kitchen door that > people can sign with their well wishes. I have food to cook! > > Iasmin, Baby Bird Vigilante Date: Wed, 05 Apr 2006 19:17:47 -0400 From: Elaine Koogler Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA Gaylin Walli wrote: > Now here's the rub. TRMs commanded me to sit my vigil and present > myself before Their Court on the morning of Coronation on the 22nd of > this month. On that same morning I am SECOND in command, executive > sous chef if you will, of the feast for that evening. I'm thinking of > delegating the vigil to a few other people to sit in shifts or putting > a really big paper cutout of me on the kitchen door that people can > sign with their well wishes. I have food to cook! Firstly, let me say that Phillip and I are both so very pleased to welcome you into the Order...Phillip said, "Welcome, Sister!" as do I. And yes, things can get a little strange in situations like this. Back when I got my Pel, they didn't do vigils and such...it was more like calling the person forward, telling them because they had done such and such amount of work for the Kingdom and so you get a Pelican. Here's your medallion and your scroll. Back to work! I actually heralded the Court where I got mine...at the end of Their Last Court, the Crowns had me call in a group of people that I didn't really put together as a group of Pelicans. And so on from there. But, as luck would have it, there was a fellow there who was videotaping Coronation and got my elevation on tape...ten years later I found out about it and he made me a copy. I did get a vigil for my Laurel...but the Crowns were somewhat confused when Phillip told them I wanted one! Kiri Date: Wed, 5 Apr 2006 23:43:41 GMT From: "morgana.abbey at juno.com" Subject: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: sca-cooks at ansteorra.org On a related note (to the question of fishing): Creador TwineDragon's vigil was by the Lake at Aethelmearc War Practice. So he fished. Doing something useful during your vigli sounds sensible to me. (of course, I'll never have to deal with it) Morgana Date: Wed, 5 Apr 2006 21:45:47 -0600 From: "Sue Clemenger" Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: "Cooks within the SCA" They (that mysterious, multi-kingdom, royal "they") still do surprise peerages. Both of mine were drive-bys. The laurel was, uhm, maybe 15 years ago? (actually can't remember), when we were still part of Atenveldt, and we often weren't even told what we were being specifically recognized *for* (I wasn't, but I think that gives me leave to change the descriptors as needed, no? ). The pel came much later (2 years ago this Fall), and we're now a kingdom. Friends in the circle knew I wanted advance notice, but the king apparently felt that since it was the only time Their Majesties and I were likely to be at the same event, they needed to do it *then.* I still wish somebody'd warned me--dress was a mess, and my hair was indescribably bad (had been wearing a peri-oid muffin cap all day). And I was rattled enough that when I realized what was going on (had gone up to make an announcement about a fund-raising raffle), that I actually exclaimed "oh, SHIT!" loudly enough that the entire court heard me. Let me tell you, in a small kingdom, they never, never let you forget things like that..... --Maire, Artemisia Date: Thu, 06 Apr 2006 00:32:19 -0400 From: Robin Carroll-Mann Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Re: Congratulations Iasmin ;-) To: Cooks within the SCA > Well, Andrea's was highly amusing, at Pennsic this year ;-) She had been > given her writ at a previous event, to get her Peerage at Pennsic, but the > gig was, that she wasn't to be told WHICH Peerage she was getting- because > she was getting both ;-) Eventually she found out before her vigil- don't > know if someone let the cat out of the bag, or if someone (who was allowed > to) finally took pity on her, but for those of us who knew, it was highly > amusing to offer her congratulations, while not saying a word about which > one ;-) > > Phlip I don't remember if it was Andrea herself or someone else who told me the tale. Evidently, Their Majesties staged a mock argument just before she was sent on vigil. "We're giving her a Pelican." "No, Dear -- we're giving her a Laurel." "A Pelican." "A Laurel!" "Pelican!" "Laurel!" "Well, we'll just have to give her both." Or something like that. I wish I'd been there to see it. Now that I think of it, it was Master Ian, the Viceroy, who told me the tale. He was rather gleeful about it. -- Brighid ni Chiarain Barony of Settmour Swamp, East Kingdom Date: Thu, 06 Apr 2006 21:29:18 -0800 From: Sharron Albert Subject: [Sca-cooks] Re:elevations drive by surprises To: Cooks within the SCA I got my pelican in AS XVI, when I think pretty much all peerages were surprises. And only rarely did a king come all the way north to Winter's Gate (Fairbanks, Alaska). I had been cooking literally all day, and had had several conferences with His Majesty during the previous couple days He was here about what awards to give to other people (was a founding member and seneschale), so you can imagine my surprise when I was called up at the end of a long court, divested of my much-earned bowl of ice cream, and then struck dumb (I am seldom speechless) when I realized what was going on (luckily, I had seen a mere few peerage ceremonies before so I understood what was going on). Knowing that practically everyone in my local group and some from other places about Oertha-to-be had made recommendations made it quite special. But now, should I ever get good enough at anything in particular to earn a laurel, I think I should like to do a vigil. Funny how things change over the years... Surprises can still be good, but only if it is really known they want it. I had a protege once, and we'd had that discussion on and off. He was also possibly a laurel (brewing) and a knight. I questioned him about every six months about it. So when he got his pelican, he got surprised, as he'd repeatedly stated. He only wanted to vigil if he ever got knighted. But when in doubt, ask, is a very good policy. Recently we had a new bird added at coronet in January, and the King was minded to surprise her at court when he asked her if she wished to join. We in the council circle all counseled otherwise, so she was tricked into the meeting, and then asked. As we suspected, she collapsed in tears of surprise. It would have been far more difficult for her at court. You just gotta know your candidate (G). Her ceremony on Sunday went very well, I am pleased to say. Morgana -- Morgana yr Oerfa, OP Winter's Gate/Oertha/West Date: Thu, 12 Oct 2006 06:44:52 -0700 From: "Laura C. Minnick" Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Weather To: Cooks within the SCA At 06:00 AM 10/12/2006, you wrote: > So let's have details regarding the foods and eats; you mentioned > apricots, I think. > > Johnnae > > Laura C. Minnick wrote: >> I did my vigil bath this past weekend- at night, with the weather in the >> 40s. And somehow the boyz got the water too hot. Dunno how. We had >> condensation problems in the pavilion because of it. >> >> 'Laini Food and eats? Well, my sweetie cooked dinner, for starts. Losyns, Beef Ystewed, Funges, Benes Y-fried, and Chycken in Hocchee, with Flan of Alemayne for dessert. For the vigil, Morwyn made a variety of cookies and sweets, and some little savory bits. Lessee what I can remember... Gyngerbrede, shortbread, marzipan, pistachio marzipan, White Torta, candied orange peels, apricot roses, some almond and honey candy, and some little tarts that we call Crusader cookies because they looking Maltese crosses when they're folded up. And there was mushroom tarts (I think from the 'mushrooms of one night' recipe), and she made chicken soupiquet and cuminade and put them in little hand-held pie thingies. They were really yummy. I ate too much. Who'da thunk it? 'Lainie Date: Thu, 12 Oct 2006 11:18:35 -0700 From: "Laura C. Minnick" Subject: Re: [Sca-cooks] Lainie's vigil was Re: Weather To: Cooks within the SCA At 06:37 AM 10/12/2006, you wrote: > So, when ya gonna tell us all the details, girlfriend? ;oD > --Maire, imagining that condensation would be a pain in the > patootie in a canvas tent! Well, my pavilion is actually nylon Supplex, which breathes well but the moisture beads up instead of soaking in- and drops on you! It was rather funny! I have a variety of primary texts on Chivalry, and several of them have details on the vigil before being knighted. Since as far as I'm concerned, the three Peerages are all the equivalent of knighthood, the vigil docs are equally applicable. So I went through and cobbled together a plausibly period ceremony for the vigil bath, and went from there. (If anyone is interested in seeing the ceremony, email me offlist and I can send you the Word doc.) My sweetie brought his French bell so that we could have a place to sleep without dragging all of our stuff in and out of the tent. We set up the poster frame from my bed inside the blue pavilion, and put the bathtub (a plastic 140 gal stock tank- perfect size and shape for one adult) inside the frame- with the bed curtains it afforded quite a bit of privacy for the bather. We borrowed one of those giant 2-burner propane stoves (something like 30k BTU) and heated water in big stock pots. I put herbs and such in the tub before adding the water (sage, rosemary, mint, lemon balm, some oregano blooms, rose petals and a little rose water) so as the hot water was poured in, we had scented steam- the smell was heavenly. :-) The ceremony going into, during, and exiting from was a series of readings and recited Latin prayers. We even incorporated the pre dieu, which was way cool. My friend Katrine (who is also being Laurelled at Yule feast) went first. She didn't want to get out of the tub. :-) I went next, but the boyz got my water a bit (ok, more than a bit) too hot and even after adding more cold, it was hard to sit and scrub. But I managed. We all stumbled a bit over our Latin (even the herald, who was my student Laurence) and there was lots of joking around, but it was all really pretty special and I'm glad we did it. After the baths were done, the boyz emptied the tub again and we dismantled the bedframe, and set up chairs and such in the pavilion, for peers to come and talk to us. We'd planned to stay up all night, but it was so cold that we packed it in about 4 and crawled into our beds. I was so cold I dreamed that someone said that is was -60 and I believed them! (That's cold!) One of the best parts? Getting up in the morning and having leftovers for breakfast! Yum! Mushroom tarts and White Torta and marzipan for breakfast! That's stylin'! Any questions Maire? Anyone else? Bueller? 'Lainie Date: Thu, 12 Oct 2006 19:48:13 -0700 From: "Wanda Pease" Subject: [Sca-cooks] FW: Lainie's vigil was Re: Weather To: "SCA Cooks" From Regina's viewpoint: Ah, yes... the Weather. Friday we got in at about 6pm and it was beginning to get dark. The Autocrat had found us an absolutely beautiful spot; level ground, near the tree line (under some small trees) so we had a wind break and shade if we wanted it. Good thing I had actually put up my tent in the last 6 months in the daylight or I would never have made it. Thankfully some intelligent soul (not 'Lanie or I) had brought flash lights. I have 5 that I bought for around the house, and I have several that are supposed to be in the car... I'm going to get some of those with several LED lights that take very little power to keep in the car. Lanie's big blue tent was missing the ridge pole because it required slight alterations since the last time so we had to wait for James to get there from Ashland. Of course he got in about 2 hours later than we expected. He brought the two E-Z ups for the kitchen, the pole for 'Lanie's tent, all the kitchen gear and flashlights. We all collapsed into bed about 11pm. Since I have taken to bringing my own private facilities I snuggled down in my sleeping bag with a wooly comforter over the top and slept until nearly 9am the next morning. Why is it that sleeping bag zippers always migrate to the bottom, underneath you? We had absolutely beautiful weather Saturday. Cloudless blue sky, temps in the high 70's. By sundown the temperature began to slide. By 9pm it was getting down into what I call cool/cold. The big propane stove was fired up and pots of water began to heat. Katrine got the first bath and all was well. Unfortunately the water had been heating for 'Lanie for some time and it was HOT. She evidently shed her outer garments and stuck a toe in. Shriek! More Cold. We are standing around outside watching the tent. Evil minded Lanie has placed candles so we do not get puppet show. Much muttering by would-be observers. We wait, and wait, and wait. Lots of sins to wash away obviously! Sing Non Nobis hoping to get Kenneth Brannagh complete with armor and surcote instead of wet 'Lanie. Not to be, but here comes Lanie in lovely virgin white linen robes and red cloak with gold orphreys and white rose chaplet. Looked like pagan sacrifice or one of the flower girls for Fractured Fairy Tales. No really, she looked very impressive. The menfolk dismantled the bed frame which had served as the frame for the bath tub and stacked it to one side of the tent and the two Virginally Pure Ladies sat down to listen to the combined wisdom of the ages coming from other Peers. I don't know how much they got because I slipped in early and hit the rack. The night got colder and about 4am they gave up and headed for their cozy beds. James says 'Lanie became human Velcro. Her only complaint came from the lovely little period shoes she had sewed for herself. We were set up in what had been the Mission's hazelnut orchard (some walnuts). The trees had been dropping their marble sized nuts for several days and the squirrels hadn't been able to keep up. Foot contacting hazelnut... I leave it to your imagination. 'Lanie may need another bath to wash away the words she used :-) Next day started partly cloudy so we slept late (9am is when God meant me to wake up). I put water on for tea and puttered around eating left over Vigil food. Day got a bit cloudier Finally James arises and the rest of the crew begin to come alive. We sit and discuss the events of the night before. The heavens cloud over, but nothing that looked particularly threatening ... if you come from Montana say. I finally went into my tent to start packing and stuffed my sleeping bag into its sack. Pulled everything out of the tent and took off it's rain fly, then turned it over so the bottom could dry. Felt the first drops... Surely not! The sky is just grey... Surely... A light rain ensues. I pull upside down tent over items from inside tent and go get car from parking lot. Trudge, trudge. Curse prohibition of no cars on the grass. Campsite that seemed so wonderfully peaceful away from the Madding Crowd now just seems to be far away. Trudge from Car to campsite. Trudge, Trudge, Trudge! Rain, spitter spatter. Pick up costumes and other soft items that can go in front seat and trudge back to car. Cursing wearing clogs that match my gown but are painful to walk in for long periods, particularly over ground. Get James to bring bathtub over to car so we can force it in and I can pack inside it. Fortunately my little wheelbarrow fits in car next to bathtub. Much trudging was done before we finally managed to get mountain of "stuff" to cars and packed. 'Lanie's bed is picturesque, but definitely not for me. Heavy, takes up enormous amount of space. Makes my military cot seem ideal. A light rain was had by all and we made it home with only a few quarts of water soaked into things. Nothing important. Must find energy to take things upstairs and put them away. I should wash my raspberry gown but I hate to have it lose it's new look. Maybe a nice long soak in gentle shampoo or dish soap, rinse and lay out to dry... Anyway, that's the tale of 'Lanie's vigil bath and subsequent bathing by God. Ceremony is written so I get to beg the boon of their Majesties: "Your Majesties Our Order is not Complete." Garb... I need new garb for this... I wonder if I could get away with finishing the black silk velvet Maleficent houpeland? She is my favorite Disney character but I worry that I don't have quite the right bone structure to do her justice... Regina Newsgroups: rec.org.sca From: djheydt at kithrup.com (Dorothy J Heydt) Subject: Re: Peerage help wonderment Organization: Kithrup Enterprises, Ltd. Date: Sat, 13 Jan 2007 06:37:14 GMT Heather Rose Jones wrote: >The Bratt wrote: >> > Do you mean the ceremonial escort? Or just people hanging around >> > because their good friend is getting the major cookie? >> >> No, more like making the outfits, making sure the vigil area is taken >> care of. > >I confess that I'm trying to think of a constructive reason for >performing a "whose is bigger" comparison of this type. Does having >more assistants make a new peer more worthy in some fashion? I have the feeling that it's partly Interkingdom Anthropology, partly the passage of time. A few evenings ago I was sitting in a meeting with several Venerable Old Peers of the West, including Sir William of York, Master Wilhelm von Schluessel, and Sir Hilary of Serendip ... not to mention my lord husband and myself, who also got our danglies in AS single-digits. Sir William commented that peerage ceremonies had changed a lot since he were a lad, what with everybody knowing about it beforehand, massive ceremonies with lots of attendants and witnesses, and night-long vigils beforehand with everyone invited (there had been one at Twelfth Night, just past, and he was still reeling from the shock I guess). Customs had, as he said, changed a lot since the old days, when if you were going to get knighted or Laureled or something, the herald called you up, the King presented you with your token (and hits you with his sword if you were getting knighted), the herald exhorted the cheers of the populace, and that was IT. A Laureling took up less time and energy than an AoA ceremony does today. I pointed out that we try to do it according to individual taste, which means finding out surreptitiously and over a period of years (if necessary) what the individual might want. Eilis O'Boirne does a lot of this: of an evening, around the campfire, she brings the conversation around to "if you were getting a peerage, how would you like it done?" and noting the answers she gets, from "I want to be totally surprised" through "I'd like just enough warning to change into clean clothes and make sure my lady is present" to "I want to be knighted on the battlefield," all the way to "I want at least three months' warning, so I can make new clothes for myself, my lord, and my attendants, and research and write the ceremony in my persona's native tongue, and spend some time coaching the King to pronounce it." And then she remembers it for as long as necessary. Other Kingdoms, other customs. I remember being blown away by a Laureling ceremony done by the Calontiri, at the one Pennsic I attended. Others, I suppose, do things more quietly. Whatever works. Dorothy J. Heydt Albany, California djheydt at kithrup.com From: "Jay Rudin" Newsgroups: rec.org.sca Subject: Re: Peerage help wonderment Date: Sat, 13 Jan 2007 10:29:40 -0600 "Dorothy J Heydt" wrote: > I pointed out that we try to do it according to individual taste, > which means finding out surreptitiously and over a period of > years (if necessary) what the individual might want. Eilis > O'Boirne does a lot of this: of an evening, around the campfire, > she brings the conversation around to "if you were getting a > peerage, how would you like it done?" and noting the answers she > gets, from "I want to be totally surprised" through "I'd like > just enough warning to change into clean clothes and make sure my > lady is present" to "I want to be knighted on the battlefield," > all the way to "I want at least three months' warning, so I can > make new clothes for myself, my lord, and my attendants, and > research and write the ceremony in my persona's native tongue, > and spend some time coaching the King to pronounce it." And then > she remembers it for as long as necessary. In Ansteorra, it has become custom to call the recipient up, offer the peerage, and then ask him / her when they would like to receive it. I remember one person who said, with engaging directness, "I don't want to make a dress and have a party -- do me now." Due to strange situations, both my Laurel and my Pelican came four months after the announcement. While I was still fighting seriously, I told a couple of knights, "If you ever talk about me for a knighthood, I don't want to hear about it until the king slugs me." Roboin of Gilwell / Jay Rudin Date: Tue, 19 Jan 2010 13:05:48 -0800 From: "western_duchess" Subject: Re: [Lochac] Order of Chivalry - privileges - a question To: "The Shambles: the SCA Lochac mailing list" <<< It's a slap, not a punch, but some slaps seem harder than others (I believe King Jade used to put his weight behind it!). I think it speaks to the whole 'danger' thing in approaching the Crown, like don't turn your back until you are out of sword's reach. But then, that might all just be apochryphal... I will leave that one little gift from the Crown specifically for the Chivalric Arts thanks. Maddie >>> In some kingdoms, it is a punch to the chest or shoulder that is used. During Valgard and my reign, 1 of the knights made had recent dental work and requested his buffet be delivered to the top of the head so he got a buffet that looked like a "punch" to the forehead. Another knight got a punch to the chest by Stephen of Bellatrix due to recent dental work ...but generally it is the strong open-handed slap....along with the admonition that this be the last blow you take unanswered. And Jade usually does a very strong buffet ... a few candidates have asked specifically that he give it all he has for fear the buffet would look wimpy otherwards (silly boys). I know that Jade gives strong buffets for a fact as during the last court of the West in Lochac, as queen I received the last portion of the buffet given to Yves ...Yves not being a very large man, the blow sent him sideways on the pillow and continued through ...well I thought I had moved far enough out of range...I was wrong and took the last of that shot to the abdomen...it was a case of gasp and continue to "smile, queen...smile"... Megan Date: Tue, 19 Jan 2010 12:56:14 +1000 From: Braddon Giles Subject: Re: [Lochac] Order of Chivalry - privileges - a question To: "The Shambles: the SCA Lochac mailing list" 2010/1/19 Grooby, Peter : <<< Can anyone explain to my why the Chiv ceremony is the only peerage where the king gets to punch the person being inducted to the order? Hardly seems fair really. Can anyone explain how this tradition came about and why it has not been extended to the other peers of the realm? Vitale >>> Just lucky, I guess, Vitale :) Actually, what to include in your Peerage Ceremony is a complex choice for new inductees, and the buffet for knights is a very controversial issue. As the last time a person will receive a blow and not return it, the buffet speaks very strongly to our martial Peerage, rather than to the other two. However, we know that medieval children were sometimes routinely beaten to assit them to remember a particular event, so from that period learning structure you could argue for the inclusion of the buffet to all future Laurel Ceremonies, do you think... ? Giles. Date: Tue, 19 Jan 2010 12:51:18 -0800 From: "western_duchess" Subject: Re: [Lochac] Order of Chivalry - privileges - a question To: "The Shambles: the SCA Lochac mailing list" Quick story regarding buffets ...not sure when they started or why, but I was told that not every king had given them. Flieg might have more insight on that or Henrik...maybe I will pose the question to them. Stephen of Beckenham apparently did not receive the buffet when he became a knight ...and felt a lack because of it. Later when he was laureled, he asked the king if he could receive the buffet that he had never got as a knight ...the king agreed, but no one told the laurels about it prior to the ceremony ...and it caused quite a fuss afterwards. Many of the Laurels were quite unhappy ... some didn't care about the buffet only about not being told...some very much about the buffet part of the ceremony. Later when the West (and I mean central West as it seems Lochac was was much more sensible in their opinions and attitudes at the time) had the all peers meetings over the fealty chain foo, one knight made the joking comment regarding, if the other peers in fealty wanted to wear a chain of fealty, then they should have to take the buffet like the knights. Now as one of the most emotionally invested peers in the fealty chain issue, I did not stop to inform him that buffets were considered a voluntary part of the knight's ceremony, I very truthfully stated emphatically that if it took the king slapping me to have the right to wear a chain of fealty, then bring it on. Those meetings were quite hard on many of the peers over here. The Lochac peers should be glad they didn't have to be involved in them ...many of the things said were hurtful ...and some incredibly stupid. It took quite a time to heal the wounds left behind. Megan Date: Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:14:21 +1100 From: Donyale Harrison Subject: Re: [Lochac] Order of Chivalry - privileges - a question To: "The Shambles: the SCA Lochac mailing list" Thank you, Megan! I love it when you post on topics, as the history is broad and well told. Although ouch! You poor thing! I was concentrating so hard on trying to see if Yves's head was still on, I missed your injury, sorry! Questions touching on anything to do with the knights are always the most emotional. When I chat with people who have just won crowns, I mention that they will think the Laurels are the highly strung order, but it is actually the Chiv. I stand by this entirely. (Laurels are more like Italian villagers, where there is a history behind every statement that shall Never Be Forgot.) The idea of the buffet being voluntary has been rather forgotten by some. AEdward didn't want one at all, or just a small push to the chest if it mattered that much to people. You may actually recall the drama that followed (and I remember you being calm and supportive and just plain wise through the whole thing, for which I still thank you!) -- it was as though he had suggested he barbecue the King's dog as part of the ceremony. The level of Drama that followed from a few was remarkable, to the point I still remark on it (and Alfar, if you are reading, it is things like this, not the Shambles, that see me headdesking over the Chiv). But Sirs John Theophilus and William the Lucky were brilliant, and gave advice to the effect of: 'Dude, they're knighting you for who you are and what you stand for, so don't change that. You can always wait on the ceremony if you need to.' The Prince at the time was a good friend, and smart monarch, and he gave similar advice. In the end, a compromise was struck that saw everyone reasonably happy, because the King at the time was not a bad man, he was just used to thinking in one particular way and it took him a couple of hours to get to the 'Hey, how about we do this?' place. Since then, we were given the privilege of reigning in Lochac and had the good fortune to knight a very fine man. And the joy of hearing him say, before the issue could even be raised 'Just a symbolic buffet, thanks. A push to the chest, like in the medieval ceremonies.' Yolande Date: Tue, 19 Jan 2010 21:47:33 -0800 From: "western_duchess" Subject: Re: [Lochac] Order of Chivalry - privileges - a question To: "The Shambles: the SCA Lochac mailing list" On 20/01/2010, at 7:51 AM, western_duchess wrote: < Stephen of Beckenham apparently did not receive the buffet when he became a knight ...and felt a lack because of it. > <<< In what way? >>> I don't know exactly how (just heard the brief story) except that he felt he hadn't received the buffet...that all the other knights had ...maybe similar to the feeling of missing some element that I felt as a pelican in fealty but no symbol of the same. Later when King Christian called me into court and gave me his chain stating that I had taught him a lesson in fealty he had not understood before ...it felt like everything was right. That gesture gave me my symbol of fealty from the hand of the king (and in months after a lot of angst as we then went through the horrid fealty chain issues and all peer meetings and some distinct ugliness from a few peers). But that chain was there to remind me that as a peer in fealty, I was bound to the crown and that such an oath is a heavy responsibility not to be sworn lightly. (IMO...YMMV) < Later when he was laureled, he asked the king if he could receive the buffet that he had never got as a knight ...the king agreed, but no one told the laurels about it prior to the ceremony ...and it caused quite a fuss afterwards. Many of the Laurels were quite unhappy > <<< How did they work that into a laurel ceremony? Giles >>> After he received the Laurel medallion, the king told him to bow his head ...and smack...one buffet done...both the populace watching and the laurels present were to say the least surprised. Only later did any explanation happen. Megan Edited by Mark S. 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